This year, I did something that I haven't done since I was a child - I allowed myself to get engrossed in a Christmas board game. It wasn't the game itself that captivated me: I was intrigued by what it sparked in me and my nearest and dearest. I think it was the living embodiment of values, right there on our kitchen table. Values are the rules of the game we think we’re playing — except most of us haven’t actually read the rule book. They influence every turn, shaped by